riddle - Riddled and Dismembered

The following is a riddle. Do not solve the riddle. Instead, explain the title.

My top is tilted to the light,
A trumpet, almost, in its form
You court a woman? There I am.
I please, palliate, perfume and mourn.
Your grief I lament. Slay me and
I will your last amen adorn

Answer

This riddle is about a

Flower

The title can be explained by

Dismembering the flower in parts, which can be found in the riddle

My top is tilted to the light,

top is tilted -> Pistil: The ovule producing part of a flower.

A trumpet, almost, in its form

trumpet, almost -> Petal; self-explanatory

You court a woman? There I am.

woman? There -> Anther: The part of the stamen where pollen is produced.

I please, palliate, perfume and mourn.

please, palliate -> Sepal: The outer parts of the flower (often green and leaf-like) that enclose a developing bud.

Your grief I lament. Slay me and

grief I lament -> Filament: Part of a stamen, the male part of a flower

I will your last amen adorn

last amen -> Stamen: The pollen producing part of a flower